Let’s just say what is real about love. It is something that has to do with gens and nature. Many people if not most pretend that love does not rely on the appearances and “it comes from heart”. If it is so, why we tend to be attracted by those who are powerful and successful? Why a beautiful girl, regardless of the notion of beauty, whose lips are well “designed” in addition to other physical characteristics like her butts and elegant clothes, is likely to “steal” my heart?
No one can deny these facts because they form the crucial factor for what they say to be “love from the first sight”. This “kind” of love would not exist if we do not consider the appearance. However, it is importance to bring in mind the fact that there other reasons we attract to others other than the appearance, like their ideas or the context in which we meet them. A girl to whom you won’t probably attract in the normal conditions would be in a romantic relationship because she was there all the time and she helped you many times till you fall in love with her in a way or another. Nonetheless, we often tend to love those who are good in everything (if possible). As much as that person is successful as much as we love him or her.
Many people think that heart stores emotions like love and hatred, but it is not other than a compressor of blood to other parts of the human body. Anyway, we inherited those symbolic use of heart from our ancestry who might had thought that it was the case. In addition, another thing to look at is that people if they lack some physical qualifications they compensate it with intellectual values.
It happens sometime that we love someone for his or her appearance, and you wish you sleep with them or even marry them, but things turn out be different when we meet them and we discover their real characteristics that do not please us. It happened to me two or 3 times, when a girl with whom I fell in love from the first sight and who seems to be the one I wish I marry, turns out to be stupid and ugly by hear practices that do not suit me.
This is how is love, and if you ask me whether I like to be with a girl or not, my answer would be, at this stage of my life, that I love to be with a girl. However, as my friend and I would like to kiss and fuck her whenever we like, but not to marry her or meet her everyday in a café and buying her flowers and stuff like that.
Ahmed Ait Attman, February 20th, 2020. 19:22